Have you been trying so many different approaches, techniques, rules, strategies and tricks to get your ex back only to have those same things slapped back on your face?
Here is why. You are one of those cupids shooting your arrows aimlessly and some of them are hitting walls, bouncing back and hitting you on the face. Ouch!
You are always more likely to succeed in life and in business when you have a plan of action, and with getting your ex back it’s no different. Having a good plan of action is the only consistently effective approach that has been proven to offer men and women a better chance to win their ex back.
The consistent effectiveness of a good plan of action is in it’s ability to help you focus your efforts, time and energy more efficiently. By doing so, you will be able to:
1. Get yourself disciplined and organized
Much of the stress that people feel when trying to get their ex back has to do with lack of self-discipline. They fail to get their ex back — and keep him or her because they find it hard (impossible is more close to it) to be disciplined enough to stay focused, organized, confident and positive. They are all over the place saying and doing so many things that don’t work or saying and doing things that make attracting back their ex so difficult.
You can’t turn on a dime if you’re always fumbling around. Learning self-discipline in the little things of life prepares and helps you deal more effectively with the “gnawing sense of anxiety” that comes along with trying to attract back your ex or actually dating your ex.
Keeping yourself disciplined and organized is the ultimate source of personal advantage that pays off with huge interest.
2. Remove existing barriers and respond effectively to resistance
It doesn’t matter how big or small your chances of getting back your ex, if you have a good actionable plan for dealing with your ex’s surprise flip-flops or unwillingness to get back together, recognizing and taking advantages of the opportunities that come your way, and effectively using the already existing advantages, assets and resources that you have, you have a great shot at attracting back your ex.
Your ability to respond effectively can significantly reduce your ex’s resistance but more importantly get the two of you back together faster and with less effort and energy.
3. Move along progressively
I can’t count how many times I’ve told someone trying to get their ex back that attracting back their ex is only possible on a progressive time frame. But too many men and women fear the future so much that they won’t listen, then when things stagnate or they’ve completely ruined their chances of getting back their ex, they come back to me saying “I want to move slowly and let things happen naturally”.
It’s absolutely essential to plan and direct your path if you want to acquire the peaceful sound mind necessary to bring your ex back. This is not so much about which timeframe you should adopt (2 weeks, 6 months, 1 year) but rather choosing the progressive timeframe that best suits the level of control you have over your particular situation and the circumstances surrounding it.
4. Actually believe that it’s possible to get your ex back
Last but not least, a good plan of action will give you that much needed boost of confidence that you’ll get your ex back. So often many men and women sabotage, terrorize and even paralyze themselves with negative self-talk.
For anything to work, you need to release the internal pictures of what you don’t want to happen. This isn’t as simple as just, release your “frustration with the world and the idiots in it”, but more to do with consistently motivating yourself and pressing forward.
It’s important to keep it fresh in your mind that only you can make it happen — otherwise you will quickly slip back into the old “never-going-to-happen” mentality. If you are really serious about attracting your ex back check out my e-Book: Dating Your Ex – What You Can Do Tonight, Tomorrow And The Next Day To Get Your Ex Back